For children going into middle school, there are many anxieties,
apprehensions and fears to deal with and overcome. Middle schools
are larger than elementary schools, the school work is harder to do,
and there are more classes and more teachers - all with different
expectations and personalities. If you have a child who is entering
middle school for the first time, know that it is normal for your
child to express concern and maybe even exhibit some acting out
behavior over school issues.
Here are some tips that you can do to help your child through
this transition:
Don't be too anxious about your child going to middle school. She
will take clues from you and if you a consistently talking to other
parents about how worried you are, she will hear you. Your child is
capable of handling middle school. You know this. Empower her by
letting her know that you know this.
Teach him daily organizational habits like checking an assignment
sheet before leaving his locker everyday or packing up his book bag
the night before and being sure he has everything he needs for the
next day.
Put up his daily schedule on the refrigerator. This is a
wonderful spot for him to check whether he has gym or band on that
particular day. You will also be able to access his schedule here
and help him with gentle reminders.
Encourage him to get involved in school activities. Be there when
he needs a ride or has a game.
Go to any meetings or parenting classes your child’s school
offers. Most middle schools offer a class for parents whose children
are transitioning from elementary school to middle school. Use this
resource.
Openly communicate to your preteen child that you are available
to help him with what ever he needs. While you may feel that your
child knows this already, now is a good time to remind him.
Do not be afraid to communicate with your child’s middle school
administrators and teachers. They are there to help.